Figuring it out..

figuring out what goes on in a man's mind is like trying to count the number of planes on a piece of transformer. i suppose guys are not as not-complex-as-women as we (i) think they are. had a brief conversation with a friend today and sad to say, he admitted that some of the meanest things that a guy do/say are purely and simply becos "it's a male thing." i'm turned off by the fact that how "it's a male thing" seems to justify and warrants every nasty inconsiderate mean thing that they do/say. certain things puzzle me slightly but yet enough to bother and ripe me of my energy just being bothered and trying to figure things out from empty air (becos guys DON"T like explaining. they think it's wimpsy to explain). i think sis is upset over her situation that she don't feel like talking abt it anymore. and i get more and more upset and crazy (till i frown) whenever i think abt mine. sheesh, i need distractions.